Correct me if I'm wrong, and if I am, I'll eat a nipple.
In cultures where
bare-breastedness is
the norm, women (nor men) aren't particularly
sexually sensitive about the
nipples. If you don't feel any
erotic sensation about your own nipples, do both of you a
favor and say so; or experiment with
pinch/
tongue/
nibble/
rub/
slow/
rough/
silk/etc. play until you find something you like. I would give my front
teeth (well, maybe just the
crown) for a lover to
play with
my nipples until they were
sore. =)
Ice! How could I forget the pleasures of
ice? (go easy, frostbite != erotic)
Hot wax? That's a bit on the
xtreme side,
not for everyone.