I had to go to the oncologist today.

For those of you still wondering, an oncologist is a cancer specialist. At an oncologist's office, there are invariably lots of old people doing chemotherapy and looking, in general, scared and tired and lonely.

Needless to say, I felt like the turd in the punchbowl being young and strapping and scared and tired and lonely.

An old lady I was sitting next to saw me perusing my counterpoint book and writing an exercise in four-part fifth species. After about three minutes, she said "No."

I turned to her. "Huh?"

"You can't do that."

"Do what?"

"That melody in the alto there. You can't use a cambiata in half notes."

Needless to say, I was floored. This woman was so ancient looking, strapped to three machines and a walker, and yet, here she was, calling me on counterpoint mistakes. After checking the work, I saw she was right.

"What would you do there?"

"I'd put it down and get to writing real music. Life's too short for counterpoint. You know it, so get on with it and compose."

I asked my oncologist who she was. She'd sung opera in the late 30's and 40's and then got lost in the war.

Some days hold lessons you can't learn from a book.