Love and Lust aren't even in the same book, on the same shelf or stored in the same library. People only confuse love and lust when they've ONLY KNOWN LUST.

And Love is more powerful, because it's the only one of the two with more power than hormones or age or crippling illness--even death. The flu can kill your lust. The apocalypse can't kill your love.

Murphy said that it's better to be silent and thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt. I'm not calling anybody here a fool, except in the good, archetypal sense maybe. For one thing, Everything is the place to toss around confusions like that. Just please keep in mind, if you ever choose to say anything about the love-or-lust question, everybody in the room who's ever been in Love is going to know that you haven't.