A
question that one should never have to
ask about
themselves. Think of it as a
product of a
society that prefers to have things in
black and
white, in
either/or cases, and just really doesn't like
shades of
gray,
indeterminate states, or the like. Heck, if the society keeps
pushing to make people
conform to a
dichotic gender paradigm when
biology and
nature won't, why wouldn't they expect people to either be
gay or
straight?
Look, nobody can make you gay, and they can't make you straight. You're attracted to who you're attracted to. You're interested in who you're interested in. Don't be homosexual, heterosexual, or bisexual - just be sexual. Spend time with the person or people you want to be with, show them affection in whatever manner seems appropriate, and stop trying to fit some rigid categories that nobody really fits in anyways.
And if someone else can't understand it, if they can't handle it, that's not your fault - and it may not even be their fault, it may just be the way it is.
Be happy. Be yourself.
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