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I'm calling a truce. I know you hate me, and honestly, I'm not so fond of you at the moment either-- but shouldn't we handle this like grown ups?

You can accept it or not accept it, either way, I don't care.

But for god's sakes, I'm dating one of your good friends. Do you really expect me to say, "I'm sorry, I can't date you/I'm sorry, I can date you, but we can't hang out in public places together, because he doesn't like me"? I'm not going to do that. I have a life too; maybe it overlaps yours a little too much, but then, maybe you'll just have to get used to that. I'll do what I can to leave you well enough alone, but I hope that you can at least be civil to me in public. And please, stop telling all of your friends what a bad person I am; they can make their own judgements about me, why don't you let them? If I'm really that horrible, you have nothing to lose anyway; they'll see that for themselves and cut off contact.

So what is it? Yes or no? I'm publicly holding out the white flag in hopes that we can save ourselves a little more drama than is necessary. We're both adults... can we at least act like it?