Wow, what a pretty nodeshell
A sentence that sometimes I hear in my head, in fact, I think that participating in your own manipulation is what's life is all about.
If you're lucky enough to decide by yourself, you can spend a great time choosing paths that will force you to do things that right now you aren't doing.
Some of these decisions can be trivial and some crucial for your future. If you are lucky (I had to stress this, the majority of us Everythingians are lucky people), don't be afraid and
Participate in your own manipulation
If you don't do it, someone else will do it for you...