Not that I'm one of those people who flaunt their sexuality, but I really hate having to define my sexuality. I hate having to say "I'm gay," "I'm straight," "I'm transgendered," "I'm bisexual" ... whatever. I hate having to limit myself in any one or another pigeonhole, having to say that I am one way, another, or another.

I hate having to try to explain to people that my sexuality is far more complicated than a single word or idea ... and that I think that everyone's sexuality is ... it's just scary to admit it.