I don't necessarily think the concept is
meaningless, but then, I guess my definition of
real man is not what some might think. I'd say a
real woman is one who is confident in herself as a
person, and whether she wears
lace or
denim, does so because of her own
personality.
Nurturing (if she wants to be) but not
smothering,
loving but not
clinging,
beautiful because she is
strong...
...and yes, also a
concept that tends to
freak out some particularly
geeky geek guys. Guess it's the whole
three-dimensionality thing, or the realization that
women don't look like
Lara Croft (barring serious
congenital defects, anyway). Generally, though, the good ones get over this fast, and make good
friends or
geek boyfriends.