My friend is getting married, hes 20, under a year older than me, has a steady and well paying job, a son, and also studies full time, doesn't complain, and even seems to enjoy his full workload.

I don't understand how he can do this at all, let alone at 20 years old.

Looks like I've got 8 months to find a wife, a child, a well paid steady job and enjoy it. And I've got 1 month to save enough money to get a suit.