A state of
internal conflict, in which one's
self-respect clashes with one's
hormonal drives. The cure is not simply to get laid, but to get
emotionally hosed by someone:
sex,
cuddling,
a little crying,
some tender touching, along with
volcanic orgasms and
silly, sweet nothings. A
naked, desperate need for
intimacy instead of
fucking. Usually the motive behind
serial monogamists.
Stereotypically the province of females, it's now almost okay for men to admit to this state.