I think you like the game.
The chase, the lookbutdon'ttouch
Surreptitious is not the right word
that sounds a bit sneaky
Perhaps clandestine, as in undercover
hiding behind layers of layers
Well, I know a little about approach/avoidance.
I have some experience with what to say and
how to say it.
You want intrigue?
Give me time,
I am sure I can come up with something