Just as every coin ever minted has two sides to it, so too does every tale ever told by Man. Ever thought to see classic children's tales like The Three Little Pigs or Little Red Riding Hood from the wolf's point of view? Did anyone ever think to ask Helen of Troy her opinion of the war that waged through her homeland of Greece? For Charles Manson was it all really just a terrible misunderstanding that got out of hand?

I am not saying that all villians are actually benevolent. Nor am I saying all people who present themselves as heroes or victims in a disagreement can't be counted as such. Truthfully, under careful examination, one can often find that things are not always as they seem, but this is not in every case. We often only choose to listen to one side of a particular story, or we hear bits and pieces of both sides, assume them to be one and the same, and make our opinions based on ill-gained and incomplete information. Was it truly the fault of the mermaid accused of sinking all those ships? Did the serpent in the Garden of Eden really tempt Eve and was to blame, or was he the first entity ever framed for a crime not committed? These are questions which will forever go unanswered, for no one sought to ask.

Was Captain Ahab truly justified in hunting down the great Moby Dick? Of course not; that is evident in the story. Yet we never hear the whale's side of things. There he was, minding his own business, swimming in the ocean not a care in the world, and this crazy madman in a boat comes along and chases the poor oversized sea mammal all over creation. Where's the justice? Where's the common decency?

In present day, a judge presiding over a court of law is honor bound and sworn to listen to both the plantiff and defendant of any given disagreement brought before him. It is in this way that a objective tale can be told, and a fair and impartial decision can be rendered, after all facts have been reviewed. Whenever a judge fails in this endeavor, he dishonors his position, and weakens the very fabric of society itself.

So when next one notices one's own deep-seated opinions, remember the Big Bad Wolf and question whether it is truly fair to name him thus, without first sitting and having a drink with him. With a gun nearby of course. You can never be too careful.

The preceeding has been an attempt to save an ill-fated and abandoned node. Please judge it fairly.

It's true. This is one of the things I've learned in life. Be it in politics, friendships, or anything else, there are almost always two sides to every story. Hell, sometimes there are twelve. Name any political or social movement, philosophy, or ideology and if you honestly look, you'll find both good defences of and attacks upon it. Chances are, you can find one of each that you are not nearly smart enough to refute. Take any political issue and listen to two intelligent, respectful people (no, pundits on TV don't count) discuss it (without getting mad and petty) and it's tough to decide which one is right. Each will have good points, and they're probably both have statistics backing them up. Confusion sucks.

Once you were joyful. It overflowed from you as the chalice of God runneth over with triumph. Your skin itself effused happiness into the space around you like an aura; where you walked, flowers bloomed, and we–mere mortals–drew into our lungs the sweet pollen of delight. Your eyes held within them the rising sun; when you blinked, the world pulled its curtains shut and wept with sorrow. If perfection existed, it walked on two legs and wore messy hair and smiled shyly and it had your face. You were alone, but found peace in that loneliness, for a world blessed by your presence was one already full to bursting with happiness. It was in this perfect moment that I, distraught, first found you. You greeted me with a smile. You laughed, and my heart stopped. I had scoffed at the idea of perfection before; after all, in my imperfect and polluted universe where the Sun had long ago lost its luster, there could be nothing remotely close to “perfect”. You proved me wrong, and it was glorious, for now perfection’s twin black eyes gazed into mine and I had never felt happier.

Just as my heart remembered to beat again, I saw that you were gone— left behind was the memory of something beautiful. I got to know you, and I fell deeper in love. Love that I had to keep hidden, for the sheer audacity to fall for you was laughable; love that grew as a tree with rotting and malnourished roots; love that ultimately fell apart in a fiery blaze– less supernova, and more dumpster fire. Love left unspoken for too long can fester and rot like a raisin in the sun. It becomes something ugly and twisted beyond recognition. It becomes something empty.

When I saw you again Life had robbed you of the twinkle in your eye. In Her infinite cruelty She stole the honey dripping from your laugh, plucked the joyful crinkles from your smile, quenched youth’s fiery spark in your chest, and left dry the rivers of happiness that had once flowed from you. I had been fine–great, even–but you had not. There is no animal more savage than Man to His fellow humans; and savaged you had become. You were now a husk shambling about on withered stumps, all happiness evaporated as though by a great drought. You told me the horrors that, on your journey, you had experienced; I wept in your stead, for your tears had run dry years ago. A diseased heart spread no joy but instead sent sorrow’s foul plague coursing through your veins, sickening everything it touched. Heaven lost an angel on the day that I saw what you had become. On that day, the world stood still as I wept–not for your tormented soul, but because I had lost you. You left and never came back, breathing into the wind only three words. “ I love you.”

Every love story is a ghost story, because joy enters your life with concerning swiftness and flees twice as fast, leaving dandelion-fluff memories scattered on the wind. Love is a constantly crumbling bridge between you and someone else; perilous is its crossing, for you may become stranded on the route to your destination. Love’s saccharine embrace leaves you giddy and with a toothache–and even worse, cripplingly addicted. Eventually you’ll run out. Winding down from the high, you will tumble down the bridge and into the canyon below: the view from halfway down shows you what you left behind, and you’ll fall from the sky dejected and lonely and fucking miserable. Touching down on Earth, you finally see the people around you–love had robbed you of your sight–and know that you are not alone in this melancholy. You emerge from the harrowing experience wiser, more beautiful, and not put off in the slightest bit to the idea of love, for it had all been worth it in the end. There is no endeavor more pointless, embarrassing, and ultimately futile than love. There is also nothing more beautiful. Love gives you happiness not through a kiss from your lover or a softly spoken word; it taketh and taketh until you see that even a normal life is preferable to the abject misery that is love shattered. The opposite of love is loneliness, and the absence of loneliness is happiness. Does that make love happiness? I don't know. We may never meet again, and that’s okay, because I love you.

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