Do not be fooled into thinking that "unconditional love" is some kind of virtue. It is not. All things can be perverted; unconditional love is the perversion of love.
Do not confuse the idea that all souls have value, even Adolph Hitler's soul has value - with some proposed requirement that you must love others unconditionally. You do not have to.
We are made of hardier stuff. We can make it without your unconditional love. Don't flatter yourself by thinking that we depend on your unconditional love. We do not. Unconditional love is superfluous.
Do not confuse "goodness of heart" with "unconditional love". They are not the same thing. If God saves me, God saves me out of the goodness of His heart - not out of some requirement that He practice unconditional love. Good grief.