The better kind of
sex where both people want to be with each other, and don't have to spell it out to make sure its ok first. When touching becomes larger than the encompassing
deep kisses that threaten to swallow existance as a whole. When the person your with isn't as excited as you are, it is no longer
consensual or
sensual.
Respect yourself by respecting others, and acknowledge that to achieve fairness yourself, you need to care about whoever you're with enough to be patient. The right time will come.