From The Other Social Site, from a girl who follows "The Secret".
When manifesting a Twin Flame, can I have a specific name in mind?

My answer:
Go ahead and wish for whoever you want. Then take yourself out for dates with your True Love. Tell him your problems. Buy yourself little gifts and pretend that he bought them for you. In the bathroom, buy some shaving supplies and put the seat up after you pee, to pretend there’s a man in the house. Get a body pillow. Put the TV on to a sports station and scold the empty chair you want to see the Hallmark Channel. Subscribe to a porn site and cry a little when you “accidentally” see it. Tell him that he used to take you out all the time, and you want to go to the pumpkin carving/hay ride/antique fair. End up going with your BFF that you're also trying to manifest.

Then, break up with him and find someone of flesh and blood who comes with lower expectations.