When I started my first job, I had a nurse and a receptionist within a bigger clinic, all primary care. Fresh out of residency. One month in I asked to meet with my nurse and the receptionist.
The receptionist brought the office manager. I was surprised, but ok.
I started the meeting. "I am having trouble keeping up with 18-20 patients with fat charts that I have never seen before, but I think I am getting a little better at it. What sort of complaints are you hearing and how can we make it smoother?"
The office manager and the receptionist exchanged a look. Then the office manager excused herself.
Weird, I thought.
The three of us talked about the patients and the flow and me trying to keep up. About one third were Spanish speaking only and I needed my nurse to translate. That tended to gum things up a bit, because she could not be rooming another patient or giving a child vaccinations.
I thanked them both and the meeting broke up.
Later I found that the office manager had been brought in because another doctor tended to manage by yelling and throwing things. And another doctor had tantrums. So the receptionist was afraid of me and had asked the office manager to stay. The moment they realized that it was collaborative and I was asking for feedback and help, the receptionist was fine without the office manager.
That was an interesting lesson on working with people. I had been very collaborative with the nurses and unit secretaries in residency. As a chief resident, I told my Family Practice residents to treat the nurses and unit secretaries and in fact everyone, like gold. "They know more than you do and if you take care of them, they will save your ass!" The unit secretaries would go out of their way to call me in residency. "Mr. Smith is not getting that ultrasound today."
"Shit. Why not? What the hell?" I would go roaring off to radiology to see what the hold up was.
The unit secretaries did not help the arrogant residents who treated them like dirt.
I thought it takes a team. I can't do my work without the nurse, the pharmacist, the unit secretary, the laundry, the cafeteria workers, the administration. It takes the whole team. I value all of them.