Not all houses in the SCA are based around themes and activities. Sometimes all the members share in common is the desire to camp and event together. (This is not to be laughed at, it's very helpful when you forget your corkscrew, or run out of propane for your stove.)

Contrary to what seems to be a common belief, secret passwords, common dress or activities, or shared styles are not needed to form a household. (It's said in the SCA that a household is any gathering of people who claim they are one.)