The
word "Should", while
not directly responisble, is a blantant
flag word for most of what is wrong with our current standard
mental software.
For a week, try living without the word "should." You'll find that things can be rephrased to avoid using this hateful word. And the rephrasings have interesting differences that go right up to the semantic level.
Comapre:
"You shouldn't smoke."
"You'll be a lot healthier and happier if you quit smoking."
I'm not saying you shouldn't use the word should. :) I'm saying you'll be better off if you give this a try.
Agthorr: Or subjective reality, for that matter.