This is something that baffles me to no end.

Sure, women are drawn to jerks. Why is this? Maybe because it's such a challenge to try and change that asshole into something more of what they really want?

I don't know about you guys but I think the tide is changing. Women still go through their jerk phase, but most of them grow out of it.

What do they really want? Maybe someone that thinks about them and ways to make them smile instead of thinking of a way to get a quick blowjob out of them before her sister's wedding. They want stimulating conversation. Someone capable of thinking into deeper issues like nanotech, distro wars and antitrust suits.

I'm certainly not a pro, but I'm learning a lot on the fly and it seems to be working well. Keep the faith nice guys.