This will in the future be referred to as the
FYGPD version 1.0
For the
flipside, please read the
Fuck Me General Public Disclaimer, authored by your friend and mine,
getzburgPlease raise your
hand if you think this is a reasonable
plea. And please excuse the
psychobabble I'm going to be using.
FORWARD: I like to discuss ideas. I like throwing my own personal ideas out on the table in order to get some
feedback and
constructive criticism; We can't
grow unless we're willing to criticize ourselves.
When I
discuss my
ideas, I reasonably expect people to make write-ups either
attacking,
supporting or further
analyzing my ideas. On the contrary, people tend
not to do this. In fact, you could say they use my
ideas as oppurtunities to try and draw some motive from it, and use that as ammunition to attack me.
FUCK THAT!Now you can go ahead and
downvote me for saying this, and I don't care if you do; I'm not here to be your
friend anyways. But I
feel it's a bunch of
bullshit for people to go and
attack a person for their ideas they choose to discuss.
Example:
DMan(the man everyone loves to hate, or vice versa) makes a post on topic
A; automatically there are literally
hordes of people who go and muckrake through his post, looking for some hint of motive with which to
attack him with. On the flipside, there's always those people who
agree with him and attack his
perpetrators for being just that, like it makes them any
better for it! Now, I'm no
psychology major, but I
feel this is
fucking sick.
Now, with all these things considered, a
flamewar is understandable, you could say he's
asking for it, like the
girl at the
bar who got
raped because she wore her skirt so high, because she was
asking for it.
That's a bunch of
bullshit!
I
feel it's a clear
indication of not only ignorance, but a total lack of
respect for people to go and post such
derogatory writeups on someone else's node. Now this is
just me, but when
I post on someone else's
node, I make sure that my comments are made in
due respect to the creator of the node, not the
author with the
hottest writeup. Once again, doing this is
just me, but others seem to
feel that such
respect is not appropriate
here. I function under the
precept that if you don't have anything that is either:
A) Nice to say(People always love compliments)
or
B) Makes a signifigant
intellectual contribution to the
discussion.
Why, do you ask? Well, because when someone makes a write-up on an
idea oriented node that doesn't either
compliement,
attack or further
analyze the discussed concept, it tends to usually be a totally
uninformed statement that
attacks the
author directly. That's so
lame, because
you as well as
I know that this will 99.9743% percent of the time lead to a flamewar
unless the first party is consciously avoiding
conflict, which is rarely the case
here.
With these things in mind, I have created this: the
Fuck You General Public Disclaimer, which I plan to attach a
hardlink to in all of my
idea oriented write-ups. Anyone who should
concurr with these views is
welcomed to do the
same. The
FYGPD operates under the following precepts:
- Communication is always determined by the receiver, not the sender. Therefore, when someone reads a write-up with which they disagree, they should first ask for clarifacation on a the points they don't understand in the write-up before posting a rebuttal.
- People will think what they want to think, regardless of what you want them to think. So even if you explain every-fucking-detail of your defense to them and they still just reply with insults, then fuck em! Hence the name of this disclaimer.
AUTHOR'S COMMENT: Unforetunetly, I am very defensive by nature; I don't defend topics for the sake of it, I defend something because I hold that ideal very dear to my heart, therefore am quite vicious about it. Where I draw the line is in letting a defense degrade into insults. I will always defend my points with my facts and a logical/moral/ethical argument that makes sense, none of that "Holier than thou", fake-dao, "I'm smarter than you, so don't expect to understand" mystery shit. Even though I am very fucking willing to use foul language, the kind mama washed your mouth out with soap for using.
- The author will always welcome anyone to attack, defend or futher explore his/her ideas, and not attack/defend/analyze the author personally! This is a major stickler for me, because I think it is so totally weak-minded of people to draw conclusions or make statements about a person because of the ideas they choose to discuss. We will be judged for our actions, no more, no less.
- If you cannot follow any of the precepts listed above, then just don't post at all. Thank you.
I'd like to add a final
retrospect in light of some interesting
criticism received because of this
node. It is not neccesarilly a
good thing to blindly defend your point to the end. I've been put into a number of binds in the
past, where you get to that point in a debate where you've been all but proved
wrong. You can either A) Be proud and deny
defeat. This usually leads to either namecalling or use of unrealistic defenses which will probably lead again to namecalling. B) Accept defeat and shake your oponnent's hand, and furthermore adjust your
views in light of current circumstance.or C) Hit the
reset button.
MU!