I usually get vary wary when a guy asks me this.
Am i available for what? for a movie?
A long term commitment? What are the implications
behind that statement? It sounds like he's starting to
think too much and not going with his instincts. Because
if he was, would he be thinking about whether i'm
'available'. He should just go with the flow, you
know? Maybe this is his polite way of saying 'Hey,
sexy, fancy a fuck? If this is his general
mode of asking, the answer is definitely no. If he's
talking long-term relationship, I respect him for
being forthright and honest about what he wants,
but frankly, that's not what I want. But if
he just wants to take in a movie or something, I'm all
for it.