Something which
girlfriends ask. Generally asked 1/3 of a second before the end of a nice long comfortable silence. This usually presages a long
uncomfortable silence, or worse, lack thereof. It is never possible to honestly answer such a question, since whatever thought you had is irretrevably replaced by "God DAMN I hate it when she asks me that!" If this occurs on a
first date it is wise
not to have a second. This is a minor and easily surmountable form of
The Trap.
See also: Does this dress make me look fat?